Re: Baby/ juvenile Southern Flying Squirrel behavior
Congratulations on finding and saving those two babies. Given the age at which you found them and the contact and attention they have received since then, it is a fair bet that they have bonded with one or more of your family members. That bond is strong. At eight weeks, they are getting ready to be adolescents and they will want to play more and perhaps more roughly (though not aggressively unless they perceive your play to be aggressive.) They will also want to hop down and explore - they have very curious minds. How curious? Even the National Enquirer could satiate their need for new things to learn about. The fun really begins when they figure out they can glide. They are colony creatures, and do best when with their extended family. That said, that you have two is a blessing - in this case, two can equal a colony.
Flyers exist in the wild pretty close to the bottom of the food chain. Just about every predator out there will be delighted to kill and eat a flyer. For this reason, even bonded flyers who are as close to being domesticated as they can be retain instinctual reflexes designed to protect them from predators. I mention this in context with your dog. Dogs, in general, love to chase and kill squirrels - flying and otherwise. As sweet as your dog is, a defensive movement might cause the predator deep within to emerge - even for just a moment. That's all it takes, though. Flyers are tough little creatures, but they are exceedingly fragile in the mouth of a predator. Even without provocation, a dog engaging in his idea of play can bring quick disaster to a flyer. If these two little guys become members of your family, it will be your job to keep the flyers out of harm's way.
The average lifespan for a flyer in the wild is 3-5 years. In captivity, it is not uncommon fr them to reach ten years of age and more. The wild life is just that - wild. Risk of death - violent or otherwise - is around every corner. The payoff is life in the trees, gliding with the colony, and eating the things nature places before them. Captivity (with someone who has taken the time to learn how to care for them) means comfort, warmth, no hunger, and being able to have fun with the things the owner provides for their enrichment. I have wondered for years what these flyers would choose if given the chance. I can tell you this ... Unless a flyer who comes to us has a life-long defect that will prevent him from living a full life in the wild, we give our rescues the choice of in or out. Generally, those who come to us as adults choose out - and a few of those will seek shelter when things get really tough out there. Those who have bonded have uniformly elected to stay.In the case of the latter, we are glad of that because in the process of bonding, some of the survival edge is lost. Truth be told, we come to love them and we like to imagine that they are fond of us.
So, the decision is yours. I hope this information lightens the load for you.
Jamie
"some old things are lovely, warm still with life ... of the forgotten men who made them." - D.H. Lawrence