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Lighten-Up
I have come to realize that "a change all of a sudden" seems to be the way of squirrels.
Just last night I was beside myself with worry because my release who always comes to see me before bed, didn't come. He came this morning.
A few weeks ago, a wild, who is a special friend, who was in the pattern of coming every day at 1pm for nuts for months, didn't show up. For over a week and a half, I feared the worst. Then she showed back up. Then disappeared for a few more days, and now I seem to be back in her daily routine.
Another wild who is like a best friend was living in the tree right in the patio. It would stand at it's nest at night as if saying goodnight, and would be there in the morning. Coming down the tree for a morning treat. Who wouldn't love that arrangement. I got used to seeing her all the time. Then one evening she wasn't there. ? Again, I worried. Then she came during the day. But not in the tree again. For some reason, she's now living somewhere else, but visiting almost daily.
What I realize is that just like I have ways of being and thinking that other humans don't get, or understand. I must realize that my squirrel friends are not thinking in ways that I am. Whatever they are doing makes perfect good sense to them. If we could understand through their eyes and not ours, we might understand.
All that said, I think it is one of the hardest things to overcome worry when we love and have become so attached. I wish you well on your journey. And I trust that your squirrel friend is living it's own life well, and will soon come to visit you.