kookoo_forbonbon
05-14-2021, 08:05 PM
Hi all!
I'm new here and so excited to have found this board! I have a 9-10 week old female grey named Bonnie/Bon-Bon. She's been living with me for about a week now and I think a very high functioning dwarf, maybe. She seems very smart, playful and healthy.
I've been trying very hard to help her get more accustomed to the surroundings and bonded to me. I work from home, so she basically hangs out in my robe (as I'm wearing it and working) for most of the day. Any moment I can, I pet her, snuggle with her, pick her up, hand-wrestle her, and talk softly to her. I know she's feeling more bonded to me than when I first had her, because she seems to seek out my attention, she "grooms" me (licks and lightly nibbles) and snuggles/sleeps on me.
For 1 or 2 hours a day intermittently (and at the end of the night at bedtime) I put her in a small cat carrier with lots of blankets, water, etc. just so that I can have a short break and also so she has somewhere to sleep. (I'm in the process of getting her a large cage...)
When I go to get her out of the carrier, as I'm walking over to the door and turning the latch and after opening the door, her immediate reaction is to growl and jump at me. Once I talk softly and slowly put my hand in, she seems to smell me, realize she knows me and I'm safe, and comes out into my hand.
It just surprises me when she does this, because I thought we were bonded enough at this point that she would recognize me and realize I'm safe. Any thoughts on why she might be doing this and if I can get her to stop? Or is this just natural squirrel behavior and I shouldn't think too much about it?
Thank you!
I'm new here and so excited to have found this board! I have a 9-10 week old female grey named Bonnie/Bon-Bon. She's been living with me for about a week now and I think a very high functioning dwarf, maybe. She seems very smart, playful and healthy.
I've been trying very hard to help her get more accustomed to the surroundings and bonded to me. I work from home, so she basically hangs out in my robe (as I'm wearing it and working) for most of the day. Any moment I can, I pet her, snuggle with her, pick her up, hand-wrestle her, and talk softly to her. I know she's feeling more bonded to me than when I first had her, because she seems to seek out my attention, she "grooms" me (licks and lightly nibbles) and snuggles/sleeps on me.
For 1 or 2 hours a day intermittently (and at the end of the night at bedtime) I put her in a small cat carrier with lots of blankets, water, etc. just so that I can have a short break and also so she has somewhere to sleep. (I'm in the process of getting her a large cage...)
When I go to get her out of the carrier, as I'm walking over to the door and turning the latch and after opening the door, her immediate reaction is to growl and jump at me. Once I talk softly and slowly put my hand in, she seems to smell me, realize she knows me and I'm safe, and comes out into my hand.
It just surprises me when she does this, because I thought we were bonded enough at this point that she would recognize me and realize I'm safe. Any thoughts on why she might be doing this and if I can get her to stop? Or is this just natural squirrel behavior and I shouldn't think too much about it?
Thank you!